Choosing My Reality

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Photo Credit: Kaimana Pine

It’s been nearly 3 years since my last blog post. Raising a human has been an eye-opening journey to say the least. My experience has been very positive thanks to a solid support system. I’m so grateful for an amazing husband, reliable family members and caring friends. Mahalo!

Where am I now? I’m still living on Oahu (going on 19 years!) and don’t plan on relocating. This is home for sure. My daughter and new job helped align my priorities and I am living more in the present. I find myself navigating life with better head space, meaning less foggy thoughts and moments. Mommy brain shows itself here and there but for the most part, I no longer feel helpless, paralyzed, drained and uninspired. This was a frustrating space to be in. I thought I was stuck with the choices I made, but really, I was in control. I just didn’t choose to do something about it. Now I can breathe.

What am I doing at the moment? I’m trying to wrap my thoughts around the current global pandemic. There’s so much information being presented to the public. It’s challenging to compartmentalize all of it. You do your best to be aware of the perspectives of others. For me, this pandemic has highlighted how broken and disjointed this world is. No surprise. We live by different values yet when the human race is “attacked”, we cannot agree to protect it, to protect all of us. Many of us think we are invincible, an exception to the risks of COVID-19. For others, making money or trying to IMG_2568-1“go back to normal” is more important than protecting life. NEWS FLASH: there is no going back to “normal”. If you’re complaining about how bored you are or how you cannot get your hair colored at a salon during a shelter-in-place mandate, you obviously are living a privileged life. Good for you but don’t put others at risk. Are we that disconnected with the rest of the world?

My sister was recently voluntold to be one of two nurse case managers to manage the COVID-19 floor at her workplace, a rehabilitation hospital in New Jersey. It is designated to take the overflow of COVID-19 patients from the main hospital nearby. I asked her what she was most fearful of and she said that “when you choose to be in this profession, you know part of the job is risking your life to save another.” She makes extra efforts to connect her COVID-19 patients with their family members virtually. She said it means a lot to them. Compassion and connection are key.

One of my childhood friends is a nurse at a Washington state hospital and she recently shared with me the following, “I’m in the front-lines with my fellow colleagues and we’ve never been scared of our own mortality. We are low on supplies and hoping that we can get help from local companies to make them.” She also expressed for communities to please stay home unless necessary.

I am fortunate to be living in a state where most residents are thinking about the bigger picture – protecting lives, protecting each other. What makes Hawaiʻi special is aloha – love, compassion, kindness. It’s the heart and soul of Hawaiian culture. Residents and local companies have stepped up to help minimize the negative impacts of the global pandemic and it’s working. Click HERE for local initiatives and resources I found helpful so far.

Lastly, in honor of National Poetry Month, I captured my emotions in a poem below. Stay safe, healthy and optimistic.


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Mitzi Toro: Sharing Aloha, One Cookie At A Time

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There is something comforting about cookies, homemade cookies that is.  Meet Mitzi Toro, a long-time cookie enthusiast and founder of The Maui Cookie Lady.  Her giant sized cookies are hand rolled using the highest-quality ingredients.   The unique flavor combinations and use of locally made alcohol have made her product popular.  Initially sold at a farmer’s market, you can now find her gourmet cookies at Maui hotel and resorts such as the Grand Wailea and St. Regis as well as Maui Brewing Company (flagship location) and Kahului Airport.  As a foodie, it’s no surprise that I follow her on social media and I’ve been watching her and the business grow exponentially.  That’s the great thing about Twitter, Facebook and Instagram – you’re able to connect with a person through their shared experiences.  When Mitzi achieves milestones, I can’t help but be a cheerleader for her!


Butter Rum Triple Chunker (the original)

Mitzi grew up in a small beach town in California.  She described herself as a shy and nervous kid but that changed when her high school English teacher, Mrs. Marick, baked cookies for her freshman students on the first day of school.  Mitzi remembered how eating that cookie provided her comfort.  “It was a peaceful moment,” she said.  She asked for the recipe that same week and since then, Mitzi has been baking cookies for more than 20 years connecting with people all over the world.  Mrs. Marick’s picture and recipe hang on Mitzi’s office wall, renewing her inspiration every day.  After more than a decade of trying to re-connect with her, they found each other again (thanks to social media!) and reunited this past July.  Mitzi finally got to genuinely thank her for influencing her in such a positive way.

Her father was another important person that impacted her love for baking.  After Mitzi graduated from high school, her parents retired in Maui and she relocated soon after to be with them.  Maui has been home ever since.  In 2012, her father became terminally ill.  “He was one of my best friends.  We hiked, had coffee dates and talked daily.  Loosing him was difficult.  I think of him everyday, ” says Mitzi.  As a way to celebrate his life, she raised funds by selling her homemade cookies at a Maui farmers market to thank the nurses who cared for him.  He has been Mitzi’s guardian angel, leading her to opportunities and meaningful relationships.  Her side passion and hobby soon became a business. IMG_0289

Mitzi spent the first year interviewing successful persons in the food and manufacturing business.  “It was important for me to connect with people that survived and thrived,” says the Hawai’i Business Magazine 2016 Start-Up Entrepreneur of the Year Finalist.  Her interview with Neil Arakaki, President of candy manufacturer, Menehune Mac, played a pivotal role in her development as a business owner.  Her biggest takeaways included understanding the three types of bakers and how thay fit into the market along with the challenges of retail marketing, packaging and managing a store front.   The design of her gift box is an example of his influence with Mitzi.


Photo: AJ Rezac Photography

She spent 15 years with the Department of Education as a school counselor before taking a “leap of faith” into entrepreneurship full-time.  It was a difficult decision but she knew it was the direction she needed to take.  “I wanted to give it my all with this business.  I’m a hard worker so might as well work for myself,” said the wife and mom cookiepreneur.  Major business opportunities presented themselves but through this process, Mitzi realized that her cookies were not meant to be a mass market item.  She was finding herself moving away from the very reason why she started baking – to connect with people.  Mitzi turned down opportunities with Costco and other mainland companies to focus on learning her customer and to grow responsibly, one account at a time.

Mitzi contributes her start-up success to the many small business resources on Maui County: Maui Economic Development Board (MEDB), Maui Economic Opportunity (MEO), Hawai’i Small Business Development Center (SBDC), University of Hawai’i (UH) and the Department of Health (DOH).  Mitzi regularly connects with these organizations for assistance and they have been guiding her every step of the way.  “Maui is very supportive, nurturing, protective, and kind,” said Mitzi, a graduate of the Maui Food Industry X-celarator Program at UH Maui College.  “They want you to succeed here.”  She also supports other cookie companies by promoting them and sharing her business tips.

It’s the continued support from her customers and the Maui community that motivates Mitzi, especially during times of uncertainties.  “I continue to be blown away by my community’s support and kindness and the display of love from my customers.”

So what can Maui Cookie Lady fans expect in the near future?  Mitzi is working with a retailer to sell her cookies on Oahu.  They’ve been in negotiations since November and she will be revealing this “dream” partnership very soon!  In addition, Mitzi has been tirelessly perfecting a cookie butter recipe, smooth without the grit and with no artificial preservatives.  For nearly a year, she’s been working with an award winning team of food scientists at Rutgers University in New Jersey (my alma mater!) to research and develop in getting the product to shelf and approved by the FDA.  When complete, her cookie butter will be the first from Hawai’i and the only tropical cookie butter nationwide.

“With hard work and a story to tell, you can make it happen.”

You can find The Maui Cookie Lady on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  Her cookies are also sold online, shipping worldwide.


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COVID-19 Hawaiʻi Resources

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Here are local Hawaiʻi initiatives and resources that may be helpful to you and others:

Access to Resources

Hawaiʻi Children’s Action Network: Need information about access to COVID-19 screening, food, health care and shelter? Check out for the latest information.

Families with Young Kids and Providers

The Hawaiʻi Executive Office on Early Learning (EOEL) launched a new resource website for families with young kids and education providers during the COVID-19 pandemic. The website is designed for younger ages and provides a tool, so families and educators don’t have to sift through material meant for older children and higher-grade levels. The website also includes resources on how to apply for child-care subsidies and where to find emergency care for essential workers. To access site:

Telehealth Consultations

COVID HAWAII: Book a 15-minute video consult with a medical professional. No co-pay for current subscribers in Hawaiʻi of HMSA, UHA, Medicare, or Medicare Advantage. All others may sign up for a $75 fee.

Hawaii State Department of Health: This webpage provides additional telehealth providers and information.

Tracking Surveys

Make a difference. Take the survey. Our best defense is to know where the virus is through contact tracking. A 5-10 minute survey created by The National Disaster Preparedness Training Center (NDPTC) and the Pacific Urban Resilience Lab (PURL) at the University of Hawaiʻi, is collecting data to track COVID-19 in Hawaiʻi. The results of the survey will help the team to identify people who may have been exposed to the virus. All data will be strictly confidential.

Volunteer/Donation Opportunities

Kanu Hawaii: Leading our state volunteer efforts, the organization focuses on connecting community organizations with individuals wishing to volunteer, along with additional resource listings. Their goal is to help minimize the spread of COVID-19 while supporting community efforts, as long as it safe to do so. Respond with Aloha.

Blood Bank of Hawaii: Patients need blood. Donate and save a life. Participate in their Are You tough Enough Challenge and make an appointment now.

ChefHui: As the COVID-19 pandemic continues to disrupt normal life, there has been an increased amount of unused food and number of chefs out of work willing to serve their community.  To help, Aloha Harvest has teamed up with Chef Hui and Pacific Gateway Center, to rescue excess food and get prepared meals into the hands of those who need it most. They are always looking for donated items and volunteers.



Life Has New Meaning

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Each year, I go through a process to create a vision board and this includes reflecting on the year.  How I view 2016 feeds into my goals for the following year.  Losing a loved one to a terrorist attack, my first hospitalization, traveling to six cities, getting engaged and finding out I was pregnant summed up my 2016!  Some say it was an “eventful” year but you know, every year is the same.  I love my life.  I believe it’s how you let the “events” shape your thoughts and shift how you live that filters your lens on life.

Let’s start this conversation by talking about my cousin Gail.  We celebrate the one year anniversary of her death.  She was taken from us during the Brussels terror attacks in March 2016.  There is nothing you can do to prepare yourself for losing a loved one.  It is typically reactive.  I found myself sitting down speechless trying to process the news.  Tears and worry for the immediate family soon followed.  Memories of her beautiful smile and our times together especially here in Hawai’i flooded me.


Gail Minglana Martinez (center)

The balance of embracing her life and moving forward with ours was (and still is for many) challenging.  There is no incentive in trying to understand why this happened.  However, there is a choice to carry out her legacy in what we do.  The legacy she left for me – be fearless.  Make life count.  Mahalo Gail for making our family stronger.

So, engaged and pregnant? Yup!  The engagement was a natural next step.  I knew my current partner would be my penguin.  Nearly three years ago, I placed something on my vision board that initially scared me – a relationship goal.  It was a heart-shaped cut out of a couple (feature image).  Deep down I truly wanted to spend the rest of my days with one person.  So I put this truth “out there” and soon after, I met my current partner – now fiance.  We continue to laugh daily and be transparent with each other.  It feels good and this is how it should be!  I didn’t say we were perfect (not even sure how you would define “perfect”).  What I did state is that our relationship feels good.  Being with him feels right.  The trust and respect we have for each other makes those feelings happen for me.  Most importantly, my Mom loves him, lol!  And now we are expecting…

There are definitely logistics and emotional adjustments to adding another human being to our household and I’m confident we will get through all the transitions heading our way.  During this third trimester, I’m focused on one area – learning to enjoy the present!  I have been fortunate to not experience any sickness or complications you may associate with pregnancy so why didn’t I think it was ok for me to be happy and excited?  Well, have you ever felt unsure about committing to a relationship because you weren’t sure if it was going to workout?  That’s how it was for me until recently.  I frustrated myself with so much worry and fear that I couldn’t see anything positive about my life.  I finally told myself enough!  It was really my last ultrasound that helped me get over this.  It anchored me in such a provoking way.  Seeing our baby open and close its hands and move its feet made me speechless.  It was simply…amazing.  Since then, I touch my belly and talk to our baby often, feeling closer and closer each time.

Family and friends have been very supportive during this journey.  Donations of clothes, books, and other necessary baby items have been trickling in.  People sharing their experiences have been the most meaningful to us and  I can’t thank my partner enough.  His positive words and back massages help me enjoy each day!

The countdown is on!  My partner and I can’t wait to experience the world as a family of three thus the goals I set for 2017 are geared towards making our family stronger.  Life definitely has new meaning for us.

Stay tuned!

A New-Found Appreciation

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There I was, catching my first glimpse of the outside world in nearly a week. The sight of the clear sky, wispy clouds, and calm ocean blue waters warmed my heart.  I was finally relocated to a room with a window which thankfully ended up being my last day here at the hospital.img_5084

What happened to me was unexpected.  It started with a slight pain on my lower right side. Initially, I thought I slept wrong but just a few days later, I woke up Friday morning in pain preventing me from normally rolling out of bed.  I immediately made an appointment with my primary doctor however tests didn’t show major concern.  I left with no concrete answers.  Little did I know that my world would change the following the day.

My weekend was packed with chills, fever, and continued pain in my lower right area (primarily the back side).  I ended up in the Emergency Room on Monday.

The hospital took me in pretty quickly trying to assess my condition.  I found myself surrounded with various doctors and staff.  The pain is now worsening and I was still experiencing a fever.  It was an infection but what type?  I was soon hooked up to an IV and getting the good pain medication.  I was finally comfortable and they whisked me away to the testing and evaluation unit.  My first hospital stay – OMG!  Is this really happening?

I couldn’t walk, use the bathroom or get out of bed without pain and assistance.  Each vein being tapped couldn’t handle the meds via intravenous (IV) for more than a day and a half.  They put me on a heart monitor and placed an oxygen mask on me.  My breathing became shallow, had very little appetite and I cried when the meds wore off.  My immediate family was on the mainland.  What the hell was happening?   I was frustrated and frankly – traumatized.


Kaimana made me soup hoping I would eat

The doctors debated during the first 24 hours – kidney infection, appendicitis and/or lung infection?  They tested and re-tested. The final diagnosis: lung infection of the lower right lobe. Thankfully the treatment was working. Thursday, I was able to walk around the unit at a snail’s pace.  My oxygen level and heart rate were normal again. Things were slowly being unhooked from my body.  I was feeling better physically and mentally.  Saturday, I was ecstatic to learn I could go home!

My parents flew out to help with my recovery at home.  It doesn’t matter what age you are, being taken care of by your parents, especially by Mom, is SO comforting.  My mom showed her love by cooking and feeding me home cooked meals daily along with snacks of course!  For the first time, my refrigerator was at capacity!!  My dad was always by my mom’s side making sure she had everything she needed.  Having them here and spending quality time was priceless.


My Mom and I

Being hospitalized gave me a new-found appreciation for doing simple things like going to the bathroom by myself. You may chuckle but I’m serious.  It felt degrading to know that I couldn’t do simple tasks on my own. Believing that your independence was stripped is a horrible feeling.  For me, it was demoralizing and frustrating.  This contributed to my depression during my hospital stay.  I cannot imagine those who are hospitalized or in a care home/ assisted living indefinitely.  Having someone to talk to was important for my mental health. So I encourage you to please visit your loved ones!  Your presence and conversations will seriously make a positive impact.  Thankfully my boyfriend was there for me everyday, staying the night and distracting me with laughter and talk story sessions.  My sister’s phone calls of encouragement, visits and texts from friends were very meaningful.  Even trashy television shows like the Kardashians and Housewives of Orange County helped, making me realize that my situation wasn’t as bad, LOL.


Thanked my doctor + nursing staff with treats from the Maui Cookie Lady!

I also hold a deeper appreciation for our doctors and nurses.  They really took care of me and helped me navigate through this challenging journey.  I’m forever grateful.

It’s been a month since my hospital stay and thankfully I feel fully recovered. I’ll never know exactly how I got a lung infection.  There are various ways. What I learned from this experience is how serious this medical condition can be, the importance of a support system, and how truly selfless and unconditional parental love is.

Chris Kajioka: Life Changes When You Become A Dad

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Oʻahu-born chef Chris Kajioka describes himself as stubborn, independent and a sports fanatic but what he really wants the world to know is that he is Cade’s father.  “Being a dad is the best thing that has ever happened to me,” says the ʻIolani School graduate.  “I love everything about it.  I want to give Cade everything I can while I’m around.”

His son was named after a favorite wine that he and his wife enjoy, produced from Cade Winery in Napa Valley, under the same ownership as PlumpJack.  Chris describes the wine as strong and bold, two characteristics he values.  So how has fatherhood changed Chris? It is teaching him to be more patient!


Wife Jenny, Cade, Chris

I first met Chris six years ago while in San Francisco. His tasting menu at Parallel 37 was my introduction to his superior culinary skills.  Chris had no doubt in his mind that he would be part of this demanding industry.  He grew up watching “Great Chefs of the World” and dreamt of becoming like one of them. The 33-year old carries an impressive resume.  Professional highlights include: graduate of The Culinary Institute of America, award nominations from the James Beard Foundation and Food and Wine Magazine, worked under iconic chef and mentor, Thomas Keller and more recently, former Executive Chef at Vintage Cave in Honolulu.  It was his time here that brought Chris international recognition as a chef.  However, managing this exclusive fine-dining restaurant and caring for his new born son created the most challenging time in his life.  “I was working 16-hour days and mentally exhausted.  For the first time in my life, I was burnt out,” recalls Chris.  He knew he was letting his wife down while trying to prove himself – needing to do better than yesterday.  Chris was desperately trying to survive, mentally and emotionally, through this transition.  Cade was born nearly a year into opening the luxury restaurant.  “Soon after my wife gave birth, I returned to the kitchen and completed dinner service that evening,” he says.  That day dramatically changed his life.  He chose to make family his priority and departed Vintage Cave in July 2014.

Lessons learned?  You can’t do everything yourself!  In the pursuit of that balance between his love for his family and his passion for cooking, Chris is partnering with Anthony and Katherine Rush to open Restaurant Senia this summer, situated in the vibrant hub of downtown Honolulu (Chinatown) and neighboring the award-winning restaurant, Pig and The Lady.  All three met in New York, while working at Thomas Keller’s three Michelin-starred restaurant, Per Se.  Since 2007, they have maintained a meaningful relationship. “I trust them with everything,” says Chris.


Chris, Katherine and Anthony Rush

Chris and British native Chef Anthony will create a menu based on items they love to eat when going out.  They want the casual-dining restaurant to be a place where people will want to come all the time, a sense of place.

Want a sneak peek of Restaurant Senia?  They will be hosting a fundraiser event for Easter Seals Hawaiʻi next month.  It’s one of four events the non-profit is coordinating this summer across the state through a new unique culinary series called The Traveling Plate.  For more details, please follow Easter Seals on Facebook and Twitter.

His son and wife being happy, having a sustainable restaurant, and creating a lineage of excellent chefs are what defines success for Chris.  “I want to be remembered as a great mentor and Cade’s dad.  I want my son to know that I was always there for him.”  He wants his son to grow up in the restaurant so don’t be surprised if you see Cade make an appearance during your visit.

Chris does have one secret desire – for his son to follow in his footsteps.  In fact, he gave Cade the middle name of Thomas, after his mentor Thomas Keller.

To get the latest, follow Restaurant Senia on social media: Twitter and Instagram




Yasmin Dar: Embracing Life

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Yasmin Dar’s name might ring a bell for Hawaiʻi residents from when she was traffic anchor for KITV4’s morning show.  In 2011, she departed for Eugene, Oregon to become an evening news anchor for KVAL.  However, soon after giving birth to her first born, her and her husband realized “home” was the best place to be.  Yasmin stays busy with her current role as digital media specialist for Governor David Ige along with co-managing a business and raising two children!  The University of Hawaiʻi alumni recently shared with me how she embraces every experience and opportunity.  See what she had to say on life, parenthood, and achieving fulfillment below…

imageDescribe a memorable childhood experience.  Traveling to Europe with our family was one of the most incredible experiences as a child.  I remember missing my Jr. Prom for that trip but I didn’t care at all.  It was one whole month traveling from the UK to France and then all around Italy.  It really made me appreciate the different cultures we were exposed to and even inspired our family to change a few of our habits when we got home. For example, our travels encouraged us to recycle more and taught me to be less wasteful.

What values did your parents instill in you?  My parents always taught me that education was the most important thing that no one could ever take away from me.  In addition to completing my BA in Biology and MA in Communications, I also have my real estate license, and studied ‘Healing Touch’, which is an energy therapy.  Through these experiences, it’s allowed me to explore different professional fields throughout my 20’s.  Eventually I found my passion in broadcasting.  Learning is limitless and will only expand your horizons in life.

Lessons learned from your broadcast journalism career?  Change is constant and if you are resistant to the evolution of media, then this industry isn’t for you.  There will always be someone younger and more tech savvy than you who is hungry and willing to learn so you have to be on top of your game.  Through the evolution of media consumption and social media, it has forced the broadcast industry to keep up and I absolutely loved it.


What was the purpose of launching Dolkii?  Dolkii is a collaboration between my sister Shaiyanne and I.  We both knew we wanted to own our own business and this is a combination of what we know best: fashion, e-commerce and social media.  Dolkii started as a project in high school, which later evolved into a fashion blog and then eventually into an online store, which launched in 2015.  The name came to me after a trip to Pakistan in high school.  A dholki is actually a percussion instrument that they use during weddings. It has a very unique sound that evokes the feeling of love, celebrations and can even put you in a meditative state.  So, I changed the spelling to reflect my personal take on the word.

How has motherhood changed your life?  Gianluca has brought tremendous joy to both our families.  He is a ball of light and pure love!  He definitely knows how to test our patience and right now he’s at an age where his little mind is like a sponge.  It’s a learning lesson every single day, but I embrace the challenge.

Having a daughter (Zoya) really brings it full circle for me because as a female, I want her to understand that nothing and no one can stop her from reaching her goals and dreams.  The same is absolutely true for my son as well.  I want my children to know that they will grow up to be strong, smart, respectful and giving individuals in our society and that they can achieve anything they want in life.


How has family and your experiences influence how you live your life?  My mom has always taught me that nothing is impossible to achieve just because you are a woman.  You can have a family and a successful career(s) while staying true to your values.  Personally, I believe that finding true success in all aspects of your life comes from finding happiness with yourself first.  That joy will spread to other parts of your life and becomes a ripple effect onto other people.  I also believe that having a partner who you love, respect and support equivocally is also very important.  My husband is incredibly supportive when it comes to my endeavors.  Not only is he encouraging but he also keeps it real with me. We both focus on what is most important to us to make our businesses and family successful.  imageThe key to feeling fulfilled is… to be grateful for the blessings that you receive and to always give in return.  No matter how successful you become, always remember to give back to your community.  It’s the best feeling in the world knowing that you have made a difference in someone else’s life.

Follow Yasmin on social media: Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram

Mikhaila Christian: Passion and Drive

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Photo by Kaimana Pinē

Photo by Kaimana Pinē

Don’t let this personable, Latina mix beauty deceive you.  Mikhaila Christian is a force of nature.  She launched two businesses and a non-profit within the last two years and is excited about future collaborations.  “I’m either all in or not,” says the 28-year-old Los Angeles native.

Mikhaila grew up in foster care and lost her parents through illness.  Her mother died from HIV and her father from cancer.  She emancipated herself at the age of seventeen and was determined to better herself.  She graduated from UCLA School of Theater, Film and Television at nineteen (AMAZING!) and did a few projects but couldn’t find her footing in the industry.  Her aspirations to be a film director soon diminished and in 2010, she took a life-changing trip to New York City.  “The city was overwhelming and I drowned myself in the party lifestyle,” recalls Mikhaila, “but I am thankful for the experience because  I returned to Los Angeles a new person.”  She made a decision to not ever drink alcohol again and committed to a healthy, clean eating lifestyle.  She has never looked back.

Prior to her relocation here, Mikhaila spent many summers and winters with her Aunty in Maui.  She knew Hawaiʻi was home and made it a reality in 2013.  Mikhaila is currently a raw food culinary chef and founder of Super Sexy RAW, a nutrition business offering health coaching, specialized meal plans, cooking classes, and health education workshops.  She collaborates with other vegan chefs to sponsor programs and events that teach our community to live a healthy lifestyle.  “I feel like I’ve found my calling.  My job is to show people the importance of caring for yourself and how to do that.  Health is your greatest wealth.”

Photo by Kaimana PinēBazaar Collection is Mikhaila’s other love.  She created this platform to provide fair trade and exotic handmade pieces designed by artisans around the world.  Her first swim suit line is anticipated to launch later this month.  “I love connecting with local artists,” Mikhaila says, adding “I believe of being a fan of your competitor. When you collaborate, magic happens!” Her sustainable swimwear collection will debut custom print by local Hawaiʻi designers made using organic and recycled materials.

She is a driven and passionate business woman along with being mindful and consistent in what she does.  Mikhaila loves to read and it is how she stays current in her fields of interest.  Her actions reflect her healthy and sustainable lifestyle.  She also believes in giving without expecting anything in return – this is what giving truly means.  A percentage of her business revenue will go towards her newly formed non-profit, Woman of Substance, an organization that will help former female addicts acquire tools and knowledge necessary to lead a positive and healthy lifestyle.

Similar to the purpose of my blog, Mikhaila is launching a podcast next month to share inspiring stories.  She interviews chefs and local community members who she feels are making a meaningful community impact.


So how does she juggle all these projects and keep herself sane?!  Mikhaila’s mentors create her support system.  She grounds herself daily by meditating and being thankful. “It’s important to always remember that you can start over and pick up at any moment,” she says.  Her business advice – “be personable and don’t take anything personally!”

Stay current and follow Mikhaila on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter.




Reflecting On The Year – 2015

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I kicked off the year by surrounding myself with people I care about along with those that inspire me.  On the evening of New Year’s day, a dozen of us got together for dinner at one of my favorite restaurants, The Pig & The Lady, a Vietnamese eatery located in the heart of Chinatown.  We not only experienced an amazing meal, we connected on another level by openly sharing one or two personal goals we wanted to achieve this year.

Our shared vision board for 2015

With two months left in the year, I thought this would be a good time to check-in with the group’s progress.  Most of us are on track to meeting our goals while others needed to adjust due to reasons such as health issues.  However, the commitment to make a change was still there for all of us.  “I may not complete a marathon this year, so instead, I’m focused on getting healthy and being active in other ways,” says Malia, a Consumer Affairs Coordinator for Hawaiian Airlines.  Her boyfriend Todd, a McKinley High School grad, is managing his time better.  “I try my best to find balance between what I want done, and the reality of what can be done.”

Negi Otoro Don with Ikura and Quail egg

Negi Otoro Don with Ikura and Quail egg

Chef Hide Yoshimoto of Izakaya Torae Torae, a casual Japanese tavern, is proud that he created his signature dish – Negi Otoro Don with Ikura and Quail egg, a rice dish served in a large bowl topped with the fattiest portion of tuna, green onion, and salmon roe.

My colleague and friend, Michael Roush, Director for the National Disability Institute’s Real Economic Impact Network, connected with me during his last business trip here on Oahu.  Our dinner conversation on vision boards inspired him to do one and he did!  This exercise has been very rewarding and helpful for him.  The vision board provides him a daily reminder of what his goals are and that they are possible!

Michael's 2015 Vision Board

Michael’s 2015 Vision Board

Professionally, this activity has been folded in to Michael’s work.  “I use the vision board exercise to train financial coaches on how to enhance the goal setting process with clients,” explains the Florida resident.  “The vision board activity creates a fun and interactive way to allow the client to truly identify what their dreams are.”

My best friend LaToya, who introduced the vision board concept to me in 2013, shared with me her struggle with intimate relationships however she defined her most amazing moment this year as “letting myself be vulnerable.  Opening my heart to experience new things led me to feel beautiful and confident.  And I still feel this way,” says the single mother.   “I realized that I have what it takes to make it and I no longer apologize for how I feel.”

LaToya's 2015 Vision Board

LaToya’s 2015 Vision Board

LaToya  hosts a vision board party every year during the Thanksgiving holiday.  This annual event brings together people of all different backgrounds and the sharing of our dreams and goals creates an unbreakable bond of support, belief in each other, and inspiration.  I’m excited to be part of this again and curious how my 2016 vision board will unfold!

While I use this time to pause and reflect on 2015, I can’t help but smile and feel lucky.  Many wonderful things happened – like falling in love.   I was initially hesitant in placing a symbol of love on my vision board however I knew deep down that I truly valued being in a committed relationship.  I was scared but I did it.  I placed a heart shaped picture of a couple onto my vision board.  Five months later, I found myself in the most loving relationship.  imageMy interview with Alice Inoue earlier this year inspired me to “make what is valuable to you, your focus.”  And that is what I did.  I’m eager to celebrate this year’s end as it marks the start of another vision board adventure.

What are you trying to accomplish these last two months of the year?

Lee Wang: Creating A Positive Community

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Photo by Eric Miyasato

People come in and out of our life shaping who we are and how we live.  Sometimes we don’t realize how much they truly influenced us until they leave.  “I watched my Mom’s journey through struggle and success,” says Lee Wang, co-owner of Lucy’s Lab Creamery, a specialty ice cream shop located in Kakaʻako.  “The values she instilled in me guide and shape my priorities and actions.”

Like myself, Lee was born in Japan and raised on the Mainland.  He spent most of his life living in Colorado and Kansas, raised solely by his mother.  “We struggled financially but my Mom was always giving,” remembers the University of Hawaiʻi alumni.  They found themselves in Colorado because his grandparents needed help running the family restaurant.  It was his Mom’s devotion to a church that brought them to a university town in Kansas.  Then in 2000, during his senior year in high school, they moved to Honolulu to provide support for his aging grandmother.

After earning a bachelor’s degree in Speech Communications, he entered the teaching field but soon realized that it was not for him.  Lee’s Mom encouraged him to become a realtor, like herself.  He took her advice and it was a perfect fit.  He is currently a real estate agent with Locations LLC, Hawaiʻi’s largest locally owned and operated real estate agency.  “I’m lucky to work with such amazing and supportive people,” says Lee.  “They’re like family to me.”

In 2007, Lee’s Mom was diagnosed with breast cancer.  “Shortly after her passing in 2012, I dedicated some time to myself and travelled along the Northwest.  I needed a break,” explains Lee.  During his visits to Seattle and San Francisco, he discovered small ice cream shops that served innovative flavors.  Lee soon became passionate about ice cream and began experimenting on his own.  He won a food contest at an annual work picnic with his homemade bacon whiskey ice cream.  This inspired him to further this interest.  Lee trained at local dairy and creamery farms in Wisconsin and returned to Hawaiʻi ready to open his own ice cream shop – Lucy’s Lab Creamery, dedicated in memory of his mother.  A portion of the shop’s proceeds go to breast cancer research.

Lee wang

“Ice cream is fun and creative,” says Lee.  “It’s an on-going learning experience.  Sometimes flavors come out terrible and other times perfect.  I love it.”  Lee experiments and makes ice cream in a commercial kitchen located in Kalihi.  He believes that you have to have good intentions when starting a business.  Lee wants his product to create a positive impact within the community.  When someone has a good experience, that person will want others to experience the same.

Currently, the shop offers eight flavors, ranging from Strawberry Moscato Sorbet to Fruit Loop Vodka.  Flavors change monthly and the ice cream is sold by weight.  The Pan De Crème makes me nostalgic because it reminds me of a favorite childhood treat.  My Mom made ice cream sandwiches for my sister and I using pandesal (Filipino bread roll).  The version at Lucy’s Lab provides you a choice of jam, glossed on the inside of a Hawaiian sweet roll accompanied with a scoop of ice cream.  It’s then pressed like a panini so it must be eaten quickly!

Pan de creme

Pan de crème

Lee openly shared the lessons he learned during his first year of business: 1) delegate; 2) give creative reign to staff; and 3) surround yourself with good people.   Lee’s grandmother is his biggest supporter.  “She’s my cheerleader and matchmaker,” he said with a chuckle.

Lee plans to open a second location however no specific details are to be released yet.  Lucy’s Lab Creamery is celebrating their one year anniversary this month by giving away free ice cream!  Follow them on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter for details!  Donations will be accepted during the event in which all will go to charity.